Mid 30's to Middle age, Not a Biological Parent, Now What?
A one on one Coaching Program designed to help Not Biological Parents by choice, chance or circumstance overcome the challenges, stigma and stereotypes associated with walking this non traditional life path, and create a career, a meaningful legacy, relationship and a lifestyle they love, whether it does or doesn't involve children in other ways.
Who is the Program For?
Career focused Women in their mid 30's to middle age, experiencing Life Without living biological children of their own, by the combination of any number of circumstances or choices made around reproductive function, fertility and health, career, relationships, gender or sexual identity, or financial circumstance, who are wondering "what now?" in terms of life purpose, leadership, legacy and living a life they love.
As it is not uncommon to face such circumstances in the middle age, "high risk" reproductive health years pre-menopause, but not always fully process aspects of these until one is transitioning or has transitioned through Menopause, it is also for Women who have found themselves finally feeling the impacts of circumstances and choices made in decades prior, as a part of their transition.
It is also suitable whether one is single, or journeying the choppy currents and waves of these times, to a new destination, in relationship.
The Journey to 30, 40, 50+ & Fabulous As a Not Biological Parent
A model that attempts to sum up the various stages and challenges of the journey to thriving in mid life after
one becomes without children/a not biological parent, as well as the benefits one may experience as they ascend up each stage of the ladder. Plus support that helps us get there.
.What problems does the program help solve?
- This program helps find one's unique answer to the question "mid 30's to middle aged, no kids, now what?" that commonly arises, after, by the combination of any number of circumstances and difficult choices made around reproductive function, fertility and health, relationship, career, gender or sexual identity, or financial circumstance, one finds themselves in middle life, walking an alternative life path, to the traditional pathway of biological Parenthood.
The loss of the dreams of biological parenthood prior, and the people or circumstances that were connected to it, can leave one feeling like they have a gaping hole in the middle, where a sense of purpose, hope, anticipation and delayed happiness used to sit. Like any loss, it can take time to process the loss and to be ready for new things.
The early phase of this program provides processes, resources, tools and and a safe, loving, affirming, emotional support space, to help process through the 'roundabout' of emotions associated with the letting go of the old. (As this journey moves at a different pace for everyone, sessions in this phase are offered as needed. When each person feels curious about (and maybe just 'over it' with the old enough) to feel ready to explore "what lights you up now in such areas as career, love, fun, friendship, family, health, wealth, sexuality, spirituality and life?" we move onto the Coaching phase.
- plus, given that one can often feel like they have nowhere to turn or no one to turn to who just "gets it" and understands what they're going through, during the early stages of the journey, this program also helps solve the problem of feeling disconnected from friends or family, by connecting participants with both a gorgeous community of awesome people, who are going through a similar journey. Plus helps connect one with a range of professional support resources that, will help get one back on track to thriving in all aspects of personal and professional life.
- The next (Coaching) phase of the program helps with discovering renewed life purpose, and new sources of love, joy and fulfilment, beyond the traditional path of biological parenthood. And then helps plan out action to help each person thrive in business or career, leadership, love and life
- As many Women in the age group may also have gone through transitions that have impacted their financial resources, or be still looking to build their finances, to give them more resilience and independence on their own to feet, the next phase of the program also helps Women connect with resources, make plans and follow through on action to help build their financial independence. In combination with doing work they love and creating a lifestyle they love, by design, whether it does or doesn't involve kids, or a partner in future. And, perhaps most importantly...
- As the separation from the possibility of having biological children of ones own, opens up a whole new line of thought around what will my legacy be, if not to have biological children, (not well explained and often pathologised, rather than legitimised by traditional family oriented 20th century development models), Leadership Coaching also helps each person explore and define how they will go on to create a legacy in the world, that makes a positive impact, in ways she's truly proud of.
- As there is a lot of stigma, stereotypes, judgements and baggage that gets heaped on people in the child free category, simultaneously, in the early phases, it will also helps sort through what really applies to and what isn't relevant to each person's unique circumstance. So that they can, with love, put responsibility for the weight of other people's hopes and dreams down where needed, break free from the stigma, judgements and stereotypes that often get put on people without kids and proudly rise into being who they feel called to be in the world now.
- the program also helps with navigating the specific complexities and new challenges that can arise during dating and relating, through one’s transition into being a Not Biological Parent/Person without kids by choice or circumstance
What are the main benefits obtained through the program?
- Successfully transition through and off the roundabout of the bottom half of the model, and find your exit into the top half
- Connect and build personal and professional connections with a network of other awesome Women and people full stop who’ve journeyed similar challenges and are committed to helping each other heal and rise stronger
- Learn the therapeutic processes and emotional breakthrough practices that i have learned and personally used to help you deal, feel and heal in healthy ways. That may not only bring relief, but also help speed up the process from taking months or years to transition through without support, to a matter of minutes, hours, to days when you feel ready and have the right tools and processes to help navigate through each layer of experience along the journey
- Re/Discover what activities, experiences and pursuits light you up with passion and re-ignite your inner fire of desire, spiritual purpose, creativity and sensuality
- Uncover a new sense of purpose in things like career, leadership, love, fun, friendship, family, health, wealth, sexuality, spirituality and life
- Overcome the challenges, judgements, individual and societal perceptions, stigma and stereotypes that can unfortunately come with the territory of this non traditional life path
- Heal to a place of being at peace with the past and having re-framed and re-written your story through the lens of your own proverbial hero's journey and the comeback story
- Receive the support you need to successfully navigate the complexities of dating and relating through one’s transition into being a Not Biological Parent/ or Person without kids
- Take tangible steps to creating financial independence, in combination with doing what you love and creating a lifestyle you love, by your design (whether it does or doesn't involve kids, or a partner in future)
- Get to work on creating a meaningful legacy in the world, that makes a positive impact, in ways that you're truly proud of
- Feel happier, inspired, energised and enjoy greater work-life-tech balance
- Create more time and freedom to enjoy doing what you love, with the people you love
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What is included
(note: as not everyone will need support at all stages, an individual coaching plan is tailored to each person, across a total of up to 12 sessions, over a 6-18 month period.)
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Support offered for each stage of the journey
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Investment
$3300
*Payment plans and concession rate available. Please contact us for more information.
*Payment plans and concession rate available. Please contact us for more information.
